how to ignore emotional bondage?

Steps

1. 1
   Learn to love the people who love you at present. Forget the people in the past, and thank them for hurting you that led you to love the people you have now.
2. 2
   Don't be emotional. When we treat any problem or situation emotionally we loose half the battle (except some situations). We better use our brain not heart to take the decision.
3. 3
   Sometimes we need to forget some people from our past because of one simple reason: they just don't belong in our future.
4. 4
   

   Don't sacrifice.
   Don't sacrifice. Be practical. When you sacrifice, you lose something you deserved.
5. 5
   Find reasons. Find out why do you want to overcome emotional bondage. It may not be that bad to break it. You can go in your life with the people you have now. They may be your good wishers and they may want you with them forever. Talk to them.
6. 6
   Make the right choice. There comes a time in life when you have to let go of all the pointless drama & people who create it and surround yourself with people who make you laugh so hard that you forget the bad and focus solely on good. After all, life is too short to be anything but happy.
7. 7
   Decide what you want. Decide what is important for you. If some people don't want you to progress and they are jealous of your progress then better you ignore them. More you progress in your life, more enemy or jealous people you may find around you. This is the time you should thank them to give you importance. But your focus should be on your goal.
8. 8
   Don't try to impress people. Too many people buy things they don't need, with money they don't have, trying to impress people they don't even like. If someone likes you from heart then they won't make you to spend your time, money and energy to just show off.
9. 9
   Trust in your relationship. If your relationship with your friends is true then no matter what you think they will be always with you forever. If it is not so then even if you try your best to maintain the relationship you won't get what you deserved out of it.
10. 10
    Don't look back. If you are doing which makes you happy than ever before then it is always better to stick to it without worrying about what others may think about you.
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    Be optimisticWhen you lose something, think god just emptied your hand to receive something better.
    Be optimisticWhen you lose something, think god just emptied your hand to receive something better.